tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888451651284778181.post6113729859128761772..comments2017-08-16T17:53:25.515-07:00Comments on the crazy house: Résumé, Please The Youngs @ the crazy househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09764101981660552902noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5888451651284778181.post-82924417350029916842015-06-04T11:12:26.501-07:002015-06-04T11:12:26.501-07:00I loved your take on this. I'm someone who is...I loved your take on this. I'm someone who is very cautious with our family's set "limits," but I'm also learning that control is an illusion. Our last placement was 2.5 years old, which I thought would make her like a baby sister for my boys. She just happened to be a very mature 2-year-old and she was more like a twin/nemesis to my youngest, which was exactly what we had hoped to avoid. Plus of course she had behaviors I wasn't aware of at first. But I love her with all my heart, and her relationship with my youngest grew to be a truly special and beautiful thing. I still think it's good to be informed, but you just never know. We can't perfectly pick out kids for families. We just can't.Christinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17635693504057980715noreply@blogger.com